I have a years-long running theory as to why people are- on the whole- so poorly paired. Part of it is a social and environmental demasculinization and another part scents. We are drawn to our partners by our nose/ knows and people mask their natural scent right down to their dish detergent. There are many factors but I bite my tongue in service to other pressing matters, though human depopulation- contrary to what we're told- might be the greatest threat we face. That's why The Maestro brought up a Baby Boom recently and even intends to offer $ incentive imo.

Then ya got the fakers who try and fool good women, or in some cases good men, spiritual battle is real. YEP>

Did sometjhing happen recently "bs relationship?" I always picked the wrong men but I now believe it was so I could stand on my own. I don't believe I would be here now if I had been in any one of those relationships. I would have been distracted and not found my way here. I hope you find peace. We Anons do have each other, even though we have not met in this life, yet.

I live with someone that I married that is a faker, FAKED friendship with me to garner trust for marriage for ten years. SO recently and still. I don't think God did this to me, I think the ones who fool His own will answer one day. AND GOD BLESS ALL PATRIOTS>

It's been planned very much from a century ago. The entire dating culture of Western countries has been destroyed, and replaced with bar hookups, which was then glorified. There were nay-sayers, but as usual, nobody listened.

Stars, sitcoms and many other shows are there to promote the new "role models" and to enforce the idea. I think men saw through this easier, but there weren't enough to stop it. I suppose the majority believes they benefit from the present day "dating" system, while in my eyes it is designed to work against them.