I thought the recipe was "unconditional love, conditional support", but I am realising it takes three parts:
- Unconditional love, even for enemies
- Absolute detachment, even for closest relatives
- Variable support, depending on behaviour
The detachment allows us to hold on to hope (of reconciliation, repentance, or restitution) without needing it.
Yes sir, that is the recipe:
Wisdom -> Compassion -> Unconditional Love;