Positive lesson of the day: learn to love the Judases who betray us. Forgiveness is just the beginning; to love them is to be grateful for having been shown their true moral character and our newfound liberty to move on. Easier said than done, but we cannot be free if we continually carry anger and resentment. It’s about embracing the freedom of fully putting them in our past.

Plan A.

And they were acting out the consequences of earlier hurts... it's easier to have compassion when we separate properly. Plus we don't get into trouble for punching them in the face.