#FamilyIsEverything. APL = 8.17/10 *Authorized conspiracy theorist *Not an authorized preacher.
Here is one for ya.
Daughter 16 Boyfriend 18.
Dating for a year.
Have to assume they did.
What do you do?
Looking forward to the day we heal our wounds and live in Peace,Love and Unity as we were meant to.
If she is, ask her why she is. Why is she doing it. Listen very carefully and what ever the answer is focus all your energy on making the reason that she is, clear to her. Repeat what she says out loud so she hears you have heard her clearly. So many routes to go depending on her answer but use God, wisdom and patience to reach her and to reason with her. Last resort is birth control because a young woman pregnant having to face THAT decision of an abortion, stays with them for life and can become a definition of self that they can't escape. Key is to work on the 'why' she is doing it. Talking to him as well in the same manner is good too. Honest and open and share your experiences and others onto why they should try to abstain or wait or at the very least not get pregnant.
Looking forward to the day we heal our wounds and live in Peace,Love and Unity as we were meant to.
Do not get mad that will shut her down. Her answer will tell you where she is coming from. 'everyone's doing it' 'it's not a big deal' 'I love him' "he wants it' " i'm not a tease'....these are not the right reasons but be gentle. Ask a professional for advice if you need it but don't close the communication pathways by getting angry. That will set in motion her not listening but rebelling.
If i have to think about all this while having a convo with my daughter I would lose her. We just keep it real. She would tell me if I asked. Sometimes I wish she wouldn't tell me some things but I just listen and nudge a direction when needed.
ANY TIME you get DAD vibes about some lil shit around your girl YOU use your authority YOU are the spiritual head over her household.
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Same with my kids. They tell me things i do not want to know, even now that they are grown. I wouldn’t have it any other way though. I’m glad that we have that trust/bond.
Looking forward to the day we heal our wounds and live in Peace,Love and Unity as we were meant to.
I do get that as a father it may be uncomfortable if she is that open though. I hope you don't ever feel uncomfortable because a young lady having a Dad to use as a sounding board is priceless for her development. Girls always want to understand boys so maybe you can give her some information on where a young man is coming from from your view point?
Looking forward to the day we heal our wounds and live in Peace,Love and Unity as we were meant to.
Hello! I totally didn't expect to get a reply. It's a honor Sir! Wonderful hearing how open she is with you. Sounds like everything is going to be just fine if she's that open with her Dad. You must be an amazing Dad. One that many of us would have loved to have. Sounds like you've got this! Blessings Sir! Family is everything!
#FamilyIsEverything. APL = 8.17/10 *Authorized conspiracy theorist *Not an authorized preacher.
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Thx for the advice!
#FamilyIsEverything.
