You just need a tiny amount of faith here.

In response Ghost Ezra to his Publication

I need a miracle, that GOD would call off my husband's divorce hearing.

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In response KristinaL Allen to her Publication

Are you in a 50/50 state like CT or a divorce state like NY where the burden is on the highest earner?

In response Having Fits to her Publication

It's a no fault state. He can do it without my consent.

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In response KristinaL Allen to her Publication

I cant speak to the emotional part as most men going through mid life crisis divorce than regret it. MOST women move on and are in retrospect happy it ended. The reason I asked because N/F st does not necessarily mean 50/50.Wife of my friends divorce got 70/30.in retrospect she deserved it. If however you are not in a n/f state I have seen many sloth men take advantage as women pushing the women into becoming the earners then suing for divorce. The women then have to support the men.Have seen the opposite women at fault and divorce agreement unfair to the man. I am sorry for your trouble.

In response Having Fits to her Publication

I did nothing wrong. After 29 yrs, he decided he didn't want to be a "husband/father" anymore. He got cancer, I nursed him through it. I got cancer, I had to go through my treatments alone. He told me DURING my cancer he wanted a divorce, that he didn't want to have ANY woman in his life. Two yrs later, he's sleeping w/another woman. His cancer made him impotent. I guess he found a woman who didn't want sex. I NEVER once implied he was less of a man, NEVER once. Whether he's having sex, I don't know, but he is pond scum. I'm a stay at home mom homeschookng the bottom 3 of our 8 children.

I am so sorry for your pain. I can not tell you enough how many times i have heard exactly your story that men go through midlife crisis and do this or worse.... they go to boys instead of women. I can only tell you you are probably right that you did nothing wrong. This is so common i cant even get it across to you. All I can tell you is you have to let go. About a year after divorce he wil go 180 and you probably wont want him back.

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