I have a super-depressed friend messaging me right now, but I have also had to learn not to be "reflex rescuer" and allow others to steal my joy and spread their misery. I am allowed to have quiet time in the evening to process some photos. There are helplines if you are suicidal; I can't take it all on my own shoulders.
There are some cold hard facts surfacing on muh tv...point him/her in that direction, if they survive that ...hug them and say: Talk to u tomorrow...if they're still alive...start at the beginning and add the caveat: We either talk about Truth, or not at all. 💯🤍🏁🤍