I have a super-depressed friend messaging me right now, but I have also had to learn not to be "reflex rescuer" and allow others to steal my joy and spread their misery. I am allowed to have quiet time in the evening to process some photos. There are helplines if you are suicidal; I can't take it all on my own shoulders.
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love the pics.
you have to save some of yourself..for yourself.
its ok.
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I agree completely Martin.
These photos are beautiful and maybe my favorites! The first few remind me of Poldark the series that took place in Cornwall ❤️
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There are some cold hard facts surfacing on muh tv...point him/her in that direction, if they survive that ...hug them and say: Talk to u tomorrow...if they're still alive...start at the beginning and add the caveat: We either talk about Truth, or not at all. 💯🤍🏁🤍
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All we can do is listen, and ask them to pray for healing. Only God can do that, but they must be open to it and I think being at your ropes end it can shake even the most stone-hearted into looking to God.. You are a good Man Martin, the burden you feel is because YOU CARE.... God chose us all for a reason... Do what you can and then let go and let God... This is even harder when it is a fam member, trust me, they will see the light and lift their own burdens. You are doing the best you can. God loves you for it too... 💗
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I hear you Martin! Been there several times, sigh. It's important and vital that we not allow ourselves to be a dumping ground for others. In the end people are going to do what they want to do. I agree with a post here that they require professional help.
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Unless you are a therapist its kinda hard to help someone. They need professional help.
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We will pray for them. I'm afraid there will be many more just like them, soon. 🙏❤
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Very good Martin. Knowing and respecting your own boundaries is a part of self love and care.
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I have had to let go of some people in my past because I realized I was enabling them, and they were destroying me in the process.
It takes courage to let go. It is not easy sometimes.