to do that takes humility....
putting ⬆️w/quite imperfect, irritating & uncool individuals...
the more we take to GOD in🙏🏽 our "this is not what I ASKED for... WHAT can be done to NORMALIZE this draining, nonproductive, yadda, yadda, yadda RELATIONSHIP?" (i.e. SHAPE⬆️ these "square pegs in round holes" whom we may❤️in obedience), the more completely & thoroughly we can LET GO of our so easily offended/repulsed APPROACH, to BE w/ & BE in COMMUNION w/ GOD's perspective (including of us!) & HIS ways something else (plugging JESUS' name in every place it says "love" in 1 Cor.13 is a good way to start understanding the BURDEN is HIS & HE willingly assumes inviting us (Matt.11:2-30) to "Come to ME..." bear things HIS way, much easier on our souls...