Arguing never accomplishes anything. It only adds stress. I have family who stand against me and say I am dead to them. I pray for them that God floods their heart with truth. My decision is when "it all comes out" , military steps in, and Trump is inaugurated again...it is going to shock those who have been asleep. Rather than say "I told you so," just ask them why do they think they never saw this coming? They are likely yo listen to you from that point on.