Those who verbally stabbed in me in the back and slandered me will end up with the same kind of relationship as someone who physically assaulted me, i.e. none at all. I may generously choose to offer consolation and advice as the truth comes out, but I am relieved of any and all social duty that might have existed beforehand. Oddly, their bad behaviour has freed me to single-mindedly pursue my own goals without energy sucking ties to the past.

I always follow the teaching of Yeshua, when he was being crucified, much like we all are for out beliefs lately, we all have a cross to bear. His words were something along the lines of, "Forgive them father for they know not what they do" and he meant it. now , when we take consider the quote " Vengeance belongs to me", says the Lord, we see why Jesus would truly forgive those that crucified him. Jesus knew that it was not his Job to render Justice on his own assailants, but it was ultimately the Judgement of the most high, that would much more than one man ever could. Its an energy cycle, when we forgive , we release the energy back to Source, aka give me your burden, that type of thing, God takes that energy that you did not create, that was sent to you, without your consent and he's going to return to sender. now whatever negative energy that person threw at you from the start, by the time it makes its way back to them, it has likely been amplified. Cause and effect.