I am learning the cost of "false friends" the hard way. In particular, we need to be very wary of who we let near our children. Keep them close to you, and watch for hidden agendas and amoral outlooks. I made some choices that turned out to have regrettable personal consequences, although it did free me to do my public works.
Same. I find I am mourning not so much the loss of the friendships, but the time, effort, and unconditional love I had invested in these people over decades. I guess it sounds a little pity partyish, but it's what's happening to me.....
