One of the harder parts of all this has been dealing with victims who turn on you when you refuse to become rescuer, thus turning into persecutor. Have seen it over and over: victimhood becomes identity, and excuse for bullying others who might help.
It’s OK to step away. Not all swordfights are yours, even if you have a scabre with you.
sometimes when we save someone, we are cheating them out of an opportunity God is trying to use to build character
