Forgiveness is the single hardest part of this fight, I find. So difficult to remove the sting of iniquity. To understand that the pain is a choice takes a lot of work. But not doing it leads to being paralysed by toxic resentment.
Am finding it easier to ask G_d to forgive them thus releasing the burden of doing it myself!
It works! (for me)
Quite liberating!
("Judgement is mine saith The Lord")
