Forgiveness is the single hardest part of this fight, I find. So difficult to remove the sting of iniquity. To understand that the pain is a choice takes a lot of work. But not doing it leads to being paralysed by toxic resentment.
I have a real problem with forgiveness because there's still some sort of power involved in an 'act of forgiveness' - feels icky. It's far more comfortable for me to just accept. I accept all humans are fundamentally flawed & make bad choices, that we are all learning, that I do not have power over anyone but myself & that everyone has their own path to travel - none of my business. We're all in the hands of karma, so if someone acts negatively towards me, I accept them and what they have done and leave it to the universe to correct the error.
