My own life has had some fairly epic social convulsions over the past year, and they are rightly private. I am learning a lot from each of these "training courses". Each of us is living through a period of extreme relational stress due to the surfacing of the true character of all around us. Wickedness brings out both the best and worst in people.
By living in light and truth as best I can I am finding myself ever less affected by those who do not. I simply don't associate with them, or reject their controlling behaviour, or decide to respond on my own terms. Yes, I feel sad that they reject my love, or treat me disrespectfully, or make false accusations behind my back.
But I don't need to feel guilt about taking up my own power and stepping away if need be, rather than be an accomplice to their abusive ways. I am allowed to live in joy, even if it means letting go of those whom I previously held most dear. They have their own path, and I have mine. Divergence is OK.
Exactly.
We separate ourselves from those whose frequency is not compatible, those who prefer fear, anger, paranoia, hate....
We associate with those whose frequency blends with ours, compliments it, sings in tune with our own...
An orchestra cannot function if there is someone playing out of synch, or key.
We seek harmony - this has been revealed, we may not have realized this in the past, now we do.
Solitude allows us to find and keep our harmonious frequency, those in opposition to us FEAR solitude, they are purposfully taught to FEAR being out of their 'herd', their 'hive mind'. They are taught to HATE and RIDICULE those who do not follow their path.