If you are struggling, then ask for help.
I have struggled too, and asked.
It came. Yours will come too.
But you have to ask.
No ask, no get.
Got it?
Xx
we are not telepathic - yet
there are so many things going on, we cannot see everything
so yes, you must ask directly
folk will help if they are able... because they are able... not, because they gain smug points.