Went through the same thing with my daughter who got with her boyfriend at 15 and broke up right before 18th bday. They did eventually i found out from my other daughter. However the scariest part was when they broke up because then you know it’s a little easier for them to do that in future in shorter relationships so thats when i was most worried because she started seeing more guys then just one, and now is with a guy we can’t stand and want her first one back. Anyhow, when i found out I had a talk with her and made the decision to get her on birth control becasue sadly even if they tell us they won’t do it again I knew that would most likely not stand once she crossed that line. I understand a LOT of people would judge me for that but we don’t believe in abortion and she is way to young obviously to be a mom. It is so tough being a parent today :(