probably too much water under the bridge for these two. However: when i was raising my boys i said to them if you take a girl to bed you are seducing her which is very selfish. if you sleep with someone youre not married to you are STEALING from them what belongs to their future spouse. you create a soul tie you cannot get away from, it will be like over used velcro. sleep with too many people its hard to create real intimacy and bond or TRUST anyone. every girl you sleep with is somebodys: mother, sister, wife - would you like just anyone to sleep with and discard your mother sister wife?? all involved lose something in fornication. guard your heart and guard their heart, thats really LOVE to guard and protect someones heart. Guard their reputation also! if you get a girl pregnant you make her poor for the rest of her life. that is not fair! if you make a girl pregnant while living in this house i will make you marry her, you can BOTH BE POOR! you will quit school and support her