If you're concerned about your reputation being right with family and friends at this point, the blue pill might be a better choice for you.
I'm not worried about it. I know I'm right. I originally tried 6 years ago this month and got rebuffed strongly from a family member and friend. The others brushed me off patronizingly, like I was crazy. The family member has since softened - I think because her BF red-pilled her - but the friend passed away sadly before we ever really got to iron things out.
I look at it as leading the horse to water. I wanted to at least do that or regret never having tried. Whether they believe it is up to them. I recently tried with a group of old college buddies that had earlier re-connected. Only one answered and he was very blue-pilled. He kind of patronizingly patted me on the head, too. The others never responded about it as I suspect they've discussed it on back channels.
That's okay. I still know I'm right and history will prove so. There are a lot more people online believing the same thing now than there were six years ago.