A lot of people get confused between "I am struggling and feel like everything in my world is turning to sh*t" versus "The US Military and DJT are struggling and everything in the world is turning to sh*t". Your impatience, anxiety, and fear are yours to own; don't imagine those feelings have any bearing whatsoever on the overall strategic situation.
Professionals whose lives are on the line don't plan to fail.
Take your lectures elsewhere and go turn in your butcher knives.