Sadly, Tara, these are things that we know of. I feel there are even more issues that are yet to be revealed to us. Deuteronomy 29:29 tells us that alll the secrets shall be revealed, Our Father undoubtedly sees all. We may walk and talk blindly and are all slowly waking up , but learning and transitions take time to digest. Our challenge is changing for the better as quickly as we are able; Back tracking where necessary, repenting and starting over when we must. Hebrews 11:1 is key for us all: "now faith" not "now, comma, faith". We must have now-faith in all.