If a friend or family member starts talking trash and stupidity/naivety I just keep my cool and politely say that is not the way I see it ,that I try and look at the big picture and not focus on all the little emotional invoking crap and , you know get them a different perspective w/o taking a side. At least it has worked with my friend and one family member, then there is no anger built up. Another member more stand offish about "not the real Biden, he is wearing a mask, when I showed her a side by side she agreed, not the same person, but when I say stuff about the children and other nefarious things she gets defensive and dismissive again. It is a fine line indeed and everyone is at a different level of awakening (if at all) .