It's not meant to make you feel good. God is Holy and therefore we must be cleansed of our sin. Do not be deceived, you MUST be born again...

2 Timothy 4:1-4
King James Version
4 I charge thee therefore before God, and the Lord Jesus Christ, who shall judge the quick and the dead at his appearing and his kingdom;

2 Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all long suffering and doctrine.

3 For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears;

4 And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.

This is rampant today in churches. Tickle the ears, ignore the truth of scripture to avoid offending anyone, combine covenants with one foot in law ( Jesus fullfilled the law) and one foot in grace. Ignore historical accuracy and the audience which is being addressed for context. Twist the scriptures, and promote adherence to church doctrines and practices over the truth and freedom that results from the true gospel message. Pick individual biblical passages out of context to make a point unintended by the context.