This does coincide with quite a bit of what I've seen over my life. Many marriages seem to be without actual love.

Since the teenage, I've always wondered why women act the way they do. Even up today, I still don't think they actually act according to what they really want. Same could be said about men no doubt, I just don't have that perspective.

I've refused to act or pretend love if I don't feel it. I'm not going to call somebody beautiful if I don't really mean it. I'm not going to play a role, regardless of what they expect. I've never understood one night stands. I just didn't want to put anybody else through what I was put through.

That's my path for being single for 25 years. Of course I've tried dating, but it ends when I'm supposed to react on something, but choose not to. That apparently makes women think they are not attractive in my eyes. Can't fall in love by reacting.

God's plan, not mine

Life is such a precious LIFE, I love how you understand and explain how much we all want to be involved with another. The touch, the conversations, the laughter and in a sense a friend to be there. I never had one, to pick a phone to call and say hi, I was checking on you, Or the thought of a call. You are so wonderful and unique in the way you share your true lover for life and in a sense no one to share it with. Can we all take time to understand we live for one another that is how we grow. I love you and thank you for sharing. Please keep sharing your life and love spread the peace and joy.

Very difficult to be one as a couple when you have so many different beliefs about life.

I'm not sure how you could do that tbh...

Having opposite beliefs in a relationship and still make it work? You should be running the Gubbermint because you'd had to be tough as nail to be doing that....

I think and thank you for your input. We lost our moral courage to talk, be kind. Gestures and attitude relays Challenge and competition, we become a loss of ethos, character, nature, community. Being in a relationship is a vessel where respect is both ways and comprise. Peace and respect go along. We should want to have the courage to listen and have patience. Not jump ship or radicalize a friendship. Fine Line Between Love and Hate. Always be friends. You are so loved, Thank you.