🙏🙏🙏 Story of my life, especially doctors and pets. Good news is I have no qualms flat out telling our doctors and vets that they are for "service and repair only" (had to go in a while back for a broken foot) especially when I decline all their meds and extra "tests". Hang in there, you are amazing and with time your family will eventually appreciate your efforts. I'm beginning to see glimmers of it in my own life, surprisingly enough.