When I re-read this again I then thought about it...how will we know when the storm is over? Like VK has said before...things can happen in the flick of a switch. Kinda like childbirth...very painful to go thru (labor), but once that baby comes out it's like the physical pain is gone, poof. We might talk about it for a bit but yrs later we don't remember the actual pain but just the experience.