YES ! It is a nightmare ! I know because my own son is going thru the same thing ! I can tell you how HEARTBREAKING it is to watch your child pick up something from the street and eat it because he was starving ! Or how many tents sleeping bags and food I bought to make sure he was somewhat taken care of . But he would not do ANYTHING to help himself. I am called every name in the book. Nothing I or anyone said mattered ! They need to want help ! I have been PRAYING for 20 years now ! Not sure why mine is not answered . He is a believer and knows the Bible almost word for word !! PRAYER is all we have over them . So it is all I do ! YES it makes you crazy ! That is what the enemy wants ! I know in my heart that God WILL make this right. It hurts to no end knowing I can not tell one of his sons who he is If I mention my son name my grandchild gets taken away . It hurts to know how much people hate him .. I have to give God total control no matter what ! It is all I got !!! PRAYERS