😥😥 I loved my mother so much, had her in my home for almost 2 years, she chose to go into assisted living, think she felt guilt in me taking care of her. Also, she didn’t accept help well, determined to take care of herself. Incontinence/dementia set in & she got kicked out of assisted living, next home was horrible. My sister & her daughter moved her out before I could find a better place. They moved her to her birthplace town nursing home which was far for me to keep tabs on her. Dr. & nursing staff upped her antipsychotic med for behavioral issues, which I never wanted her on so only allowed a very low dose. They upped it without my knowledge, only found out after they totally crippled her. She got neuroleptic malignant syndrome 😠 She could no longer eat by mouth so a PEG tube placed, got severe contractures of hands/feet so became chair bound. I was furious & wanted to sue, but experienced a total house fire; it destroyed all my documented evidence. (Cont.)