Forgiveness is another theme that kept coming up in my quiet time. I heard a Pastor recently describe the difference between reconciliation and forgiveness. They're not the same. You don't need to reconcile with someone to forgive them. I find this helpful.

Cleansing to forgive and pass them on to God for judgement.
We don't have to accept what they have done or done to us, just forgive the soul, whether it is unrepairabllly broken or repairable is up to the soul and Creator.

You just nailed it Nana. We must give it all to God and allow Him to do the judging or we'll drive ourselves crazy.