AU is obscure enough that I can tell the story here. My ex-boyfriend was paying for my children to go to private school (long story). He promised he would never use his money to displace my authority as father. He is the Jewish son of Nazi camp survivors, and a refugee from Soviet invasion of Prague. There are "art sculpture books" of their stories in his house, done by his artist sister.
He betrayed me by colluding with the rest of my family (ex-wife, parents) to keep my daughter in school against my wishes, despite their nakedly unlawful, unethical, and unprofessional behaviour re Covid jabs. I was essentially cut out as father, and he was given access rights in my place. I have hardly seen my younger daughter in three years. She is coming to the UK next week for her half term, and we are not scheduled to meet, but she will see him and my parents.
My ex bf had read my book, admitted it was tyranny, yet justified his behaviour by saying he is a coward.
Wicked and cruel.
Ugh that is disgusting vile and cruel! I am appalled for you and your children. That's an unspeakable level of depravity. Just know that Your child will ALWAYS be your child. When they are older, you just keep being the loving parent you are in every way you can, and your child will seek you out. No one will be able to stop them.
What they are doing has a name: it's called Parental Alienation.