US Navy veteran, live in caregiver for my 99 yo Mother, Nana and Great Nana
Unfortunately, too many people are placing their parents, grandparents into LTC and Assisted Living facilities rather than making room for them in their own homes. They have all sorts of excuses. Actually, their reasons are golf, bowling, cruises, RV traveling, etc. While they are out enjoying their retirement(s), their parents are often alone and bored and frightened. Feeling helpless because they can no longer drive and take care of themselves. That will not be the case with my mother. She has the master bedroom in our home. She is the priority above all else in my life and in my heart. I will be here for her as long as I am alive. After all, she was the person who took me to piano and dance lessons. She made sure that I had dresses by sewing them by hand because she did not have a sewing machine. She gave her entire young years over to raising me and my brother. Although poor, we always had enough. It is the greatest honor of my life to be her caregiver.
Tears streaming down my face. My Mom was only 69 when she passed away from cancer last March. She had her own little apartment and loved it. I went to every doctor appointment with her and did everything I could to help make life easy and happy for her. She was happy until the very end. We must take care of our parents and family. Your Mom is blessed to have you. ❤️❤️ I would have never allowed my Mom to be in one of those cold places.