learn Russian so you can communicate with her, it will make a huge difference

and make it a suprise. she tried to change for you via watching American movies, living in America, etc you need to show her you can come her way too

If i could get her away from the TV or her phone I'd try.

Talk to her... Dude, talk to her not other ppl. Tell her how you feel. Tell her that you miss her.

I have but it's like talking to someone who has no respect for me. It almost always leads to an argument. It's funny because her friends always told me she talked about me all the time and what a great man I was. But now she blatantly treats me so badly I think some guys without my patience would slug her. I just don't think people change that radically overnight. One day we were having sex 2-3 times a week and saying it was better than the last time and then one day she would just roll over so she wouldn't have to kiss me or see my face. Like she just wanted to get it over with. It's been that way for three years. Is that normal?
Her son is much different, too. He's 30 and was always industrious. Owned a cell phone store, went to the police academy. Skydiving lessons. Now he doesn't have a car, a job, or a place to live. He doesn't talk to anyone or have any plans. He's definitely not the same.
I know it's weird , but how do you explain the Bond movie or Chic Fil A?

She from Russia? Maybe she misses home? I know now it's difficult to travel there (and probably expensive), but there are ways through other countries, as there are no direct flights. Maybe a trip home would be a good idea.

No, she never had any desire to go there. She hated Russia. Now the only news she talks about is what's happening in Russia. I don't think anything will help because she doesn't have the same personality she used to have. She's completely different.I know people change, but I don't see any of her old personality in her. She used to be very affectionate and we haven't kissed in months, maybe years. It's been too long to remember. She never wants sex. Ever. And that's not like her at all.
I can see women having a period of change but they eventually come out of it. She's been this way for three years now.

Sometimes when I have traveled in my vision I have wondered if I got back in the timeline that I started out in because the ones closest seemed to be so similar.

I was having issues as well with some small things being different that I knew were not the same and I know other ppl that have as well.
About the same time I was questioning some things myself others mentioned it too. One of my very sane guy frens messaged me one morning to say wth is going on.

He had one particular color of bath towels he used for years never bought other colors and he got up that morning and they were a different color. Freaked him right out.

2 years ago from this past July my daughter and I were driving home late one evening and experienced what they call a time slip.
We ended up driving down a road in our small town that existed that night but hadn't existed before or after.
In the truck we were both weirded out that we hadn't seen that street with those stores before, especially living in a small town and driving in that area for years. She wanted to go back the next day so I took her.
Only it never existed.
Still boggles my mind. We both saw it.
If it was just me I'd think I was going crazy but it most certainly happened to the both of us.
Something changed. I don't know if it was timelines or what,
but something happened for sure. And it was ALWAYS Bearenstein Bears. I did a book report on one of the stories in elementary school.
Fookery, I tell ya.

Sorry bout your bff, perhaps events that are about to happen will snap her back to center.

I don't think so. This is a different version of her. Very superstitious and not very much fun to be around. She complains all the time and blames me for all her problems. One night I told her how her spending habits were causing my bank account problems. She actually said, "Fuck your money!" I was shocked, and that's when I first thought she was a stranger. My wife would NEVER say something like that.

You gotta bring your a game.

I don't want this woman. I have no interest in her. Sex is terrible and it's always me who initiates it. She doesn't even kiss me. This is a woman who lived in Russia. A housewife who stayed home and watched soap operas all day. My wife never did that. We watched movies together all the time or Breaking Bad. Always together. This is like Invasion of the Body Snatchers and I'm living with a pod person.

Beautiful couple. I will pray for healing in your marriage. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

Thanks, but the woman I married is gone.

I am so, so sorry for your pain.

Thank you. It IS painful. I lost my best friend and lover. And it's not just a couple drifting apart after being together for ten years. She's completely different. I can feel it when we have sex. so I stopped even trying. Like being with a stranger. And everything she says is an insult. If I put on the TV in the morning before she puts on her Russian soap opera she flies into a rage. That' just not the same woman. I've been unhappy for a few years but when I read the post about the husband being a different person it clicked. I went through all our old pictures and can see it in her face she was different. Always a smile and twinkle in her eye. Now that's gone. I know most people think I'm imagining this but I didn't imagine the James Bond thing or Bearenstein Bears. Something changed a few years ago, and not for the better.