If you have neigbors, or friends, who are 'old and alone', don't forget to check on them. A quick 'hey, how ya doin'' phone call means a lot, and can also divert disaster. Quick personal story: My one friend of 60+ years, lives alone and has medical issues galore. Her family is busy, and they don't really check on her very often. I told her that I'd be calling or sending a text every day/every other day, just to check in and yak a while. A few days ago, I called numerous times, and texted...always get a text back. I didn't hear from her by morning of day 3, I called her daughter to go check on her. Her phone was dead, her back surgery didn't heal (bone pressing on cord & nerves)...she could not get out of bed for 3 days. Nothing to eat or drink, or get her insulin she needs! She actually had to be rescued. I only tell the story to remind people, that older folk, esp. living by themselves, need to be checked on here and there. Her Dr said one more day and she would have died.

I have 2 ladies I check with daily. I imagine I am sometimes the only one the 80 year old talks to that day. Glad I can help.

Maybe I'll be lucky enough to have this when I turn 80. I honor little old ladies because I aspire to be one!

In response Joyce Zikursh to her Publication

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In response Cookie Lover to her Publication

That's wonderful, what a kind thing for you to do! I'm sure they look forward to each and every one your calls, and their day is made so much brighter just from interaction from someone who cares ❤️

Wife, Mom, Daughter, Sister, Aunt. Love my Country.

In response Joyce Zikursh to her Publication

And you would know! Good luck with your sunshine sharing as well!

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