my husband and I are considered the crazy couple.......we are laughin.....when all comes out they will be coming to us for information.....it was hard in the beginning but we have moved past that or moved up further together.......which im so glad we made the transition together......Im grateful for the ones on here who helped us to stay strong....those words mean more than an unwake person can even imagine......we dont hold it against them for not understanding, we had to keep moving forward, as we will be there when they are ready or not they will find out......