Learn something new today. Think differently today than you did yesterday. Question something today that you didn't yesterday. Be open to the fact you may have gotten somethings wrong. If you've done these things, congratulations you've grown today.
That's been a philosophy for me for a long time, to try to learn something or process something I researched
And I'm always questioning, so these edicts & orders to obey don't sit well with me at all, lol
I don't obey - I learned a long time ago advice & counsel is one thing, but someone trying to step on your soveignty & trying to take over your space is another & I reject it