Ive read so many of your posts that turn out to be something entirely different than I thought. They usually turn out to be comms. (I dont quite understand comms but I do my best to pay attention.) I have learned throughout this “movie”, not to take anything at face value. (Im actually surprised at how many went straight to face value on this one?)
If it is as you say, I am sincerely sorry for your loss. But I have a feeling, this is bigger than what youre saying.