So very sorry for what you went through...🙏😔 And yes, the mothers need help too, and he fathers. I don't think people are meaning to blame the women and make it a patriarchal issue. Just my two-cents' worth, but I think the focus right now is on the babies, and the ones carrying the babies, because it's the babies who are being murdered. Again, though, this is a very complicated issue regarding the mothers and the fathers of these unwanted children. A friend's wife used to work for a place that helped unmarried women who were pregnant. They did great work. Some of the women gave their babies up for adoption instead of aborting them. Maybe that would be a solution for some women, instead of abortion, as there are many out there who would love to have a child but can't for various reasons. Prayers and blessings!! 🙏❤️

I agree the children must be protected better.
I love how people think that adoption is the better answer, I was adopted out. Not only am I physically disabled and am in pain every minute of every hour because she tried to hide me, I was given to a decent enough set of parents but it was far less then ideal.
The trauma that adopted newborns experience is profound, we NEVER get over it, even if an adoptee has a great adopted family, they are still affected, we are in a fog about it until we face it.
If you would like to promote adoption you'd be best to understand the implications of what you are saying. Check out this interview with Dr Paul Sunderland of England, a psychologist who has researched this extensively.