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From my understanding of the black eye club is that you aren't a member unless you sport the black eye in public.
Hope that makes people feel better.
i wondered about that,
part of the humiliation ritual, maybe,
bc i doubt [they] think it's a status symbol
some do look slightly embarrassed or bit of shame