I agree with most of this. Loving thy neighbor has gotten tougher over the years tho. We will always have human nature to contend with and one aspect comes from Cain and the other from Abel.

These things have helped me to walk this fine line of forgiveness vs acceptance and to love our neighbors.
Love the sin and correct the sinner. Love is desiring the good of another for their sake and not our self interests. Paraphrased from Scripture and Doctors of the Church.
Here are wise words from a dear friend and a gentleman walking the path of sainthood whom I consider a spiritual mentor.