My shrink told me I was crazy... I said I want a second opinion... he said I was ugly too.... Lin, You hang in there. You are a good man. You try to do what is right. Just remember that no good deed goes unpunished. This is not just a smear attack. It is much worse because no one can to prove ghosts don't exist. This is an easy way for them to discredit and abuse you. Be careful.