I am going to actively choose to be the person who breaks my cycles. If I was judged, I'm going to choose understanding. If was rejected, I'm going to choose acceptance. If I was shamed, I'm going to choose compassion. I'm going to be the person I needed when I was hurting, not the person who hurt me. I Vow to be better than what broke ME - to heal instead of becoming bitter so I can act from MY heart, and not my pain.