When my 3rd son was tiny everybody told me he was ADHD (which was the most popular reason for naughty kids to be given drugs back then in the 80s). This child was born feet first, no matter how many times my old and really good doctor managed to turn him. Always defiant, just wanted to be left to do what he wanted to do - none of it destructive - he just didn't understand why so many people wanted to complicate his life when all he was doing was chilling. I never put him on drugs, but when he seemed troubled to me I would just watch as he moved closer to me physically, until his head rested on me, and I would hug him close and eventually his problem would be revealed. Today he is 38 and just found the woman of his dreams, whom I told him about several years ago. He said then she was just a mate. She has hung in there and now they are together. He is still angry with the world............that is because in his soul I believe he knows there is something wrong with it.