You are not wrong. More leadership should speak out. They don't and they don't get how deeply families are suffering. Sometimes I wonder who the enemy is. It's one thing to be so blatant we know our enemy, but the military minds may not completely get it because they are in another world. I grew up military and believe me it is very different. But, I can promise you, You need to hang in there. Hang in there. You will find a newer, better path. I have been to hell myself and I am back. I am back. You will be too. Please know you are so loved. I know you are loved by your Father in Heaven. I believe this with my whole soul. Hopefully the military will rethink their efforts. God Bless them otherwise, God bless you.