omg.I have the same issue with my first born thats coming up to 25years. Give him time and space. they dont like their reality being crushed. sometimes its all they have but they dont understand life is so much more. Hold your head up high. It took my youngest a while and she just kept disrespecting me but has eventually seen for herself that I'm not full of shite. Stay strong. I know its not easy. I always break down and cry talking about any subject especially the children. love and light to you and your family. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️