2. As parents we did almost the same, maybe better in other apects, the material comfort but the most important things, LOVE & BOND was simply supressed. We've been chased away from Church... We were born and raised in communism & they had certain rules for raising a child... When a woman gave birth at home she had the baby close to her in bed but, later on when women gave birth in hospital, they had a nursery for the babies & we were not allowed in, only at feeding time, every 3 hours, so wrong... We were walking by the nursery hearing babies cry & wondering if it was my baby... All was militarized, fathers were very strict, at school the same. Nowadays, other things are not done right with the kids, also. I have so many regrets for not raising our daughter as we should've, showing her more love and closeness as a child... She once told me that the communists kept babies apart from mothers so that they wont develop a bond with the mother & she was so right!