John 3:7 John 3:3 (KJV) Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
1 Peter 1.23 Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God

Truth is a choice But truth remains truth no matter how much it is resisted
A wise lady once told me “Truth is what agrees with the final reality”
Some do not believe in God either
The final reality will be enough to settle the argument