I will always be 'confusing' to you if you're expecting me to only give you answers you want to hear...if you don't like the answer You are given then don't ask it.
Once you learn how to accept the truth you'll stop wasting time. Teach yourself to say this simple phrase, "Even if the answer is still not what I want, God you are still good."
"For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord."
