I think one of the most gangster things my mama did when I was a kid was LITERALLY not tell me about "golden books" and princess stuff etc. Spent the night at a friends and she had them. She was floored I had no idea about like princess books. SO when I went home asked mama WHY didn't you tell me about them. She said cause no such thing as a princess no such thing as a knight in shining armor. Some days you are gonna wish things were not so hard. YOU gotta rely on GOD>