Hits the nail on the head!
I'm still trying to wake my partner up!

When I mentally communicated with our resident spirit (I believe his father) to hit him over the head with something to wake him up, the following day a mustard jar flew out the kitchen cupboard with force and hit him on the chest when he opened it!

That was March 20 2022.
I'm still trying!
I think I detect a little awakening spark!
He still watches the news and believes it!
With the fall of Syria he believes Assad will be replaced with another as bad.
I tell him Assad would have been taken out long ago.
I tell him we're watching a movie.
I think he thinks I've lost the plot.
But he likes my cooking.
And he washes the dishes. 🤣

A few days ago I had washed home grown carrots on the sink. I moved them towards me to wipe up the water, then shoved them back. Shortly after, a carrot landed on the floor some distance from the sink cupboard with a loud thud! Carrot and stick comes to mind.