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In response Dale Bradburn to his Publication

YES!

As a child I realized I had to portion content for conversations. If someone handled info well I might offer more. It seemed others could not function long outside of bubble gum conversations.

I realized God reveals truth everywhere if you are listening and looking. I realized truth in one area could be applied to other areas in principal.

I discovered when I outgrew a thought I initially had to rethink how I interpreted the info.

When I had been hurt, when I TRULY FORGIVE I had to reframe how I responded and talked about it...Otherwise I would recreate the hurt by indulging and NOT forgiving. I had to find a different way different then before.
I could not repeat old hurts if I truly wanted to go beyond.
I discovered UNFORGIVENESS creates a lens skewed like a fun house mirror. Forgiveness cleans the skewed lens interpretation.

Every decision is a choice...
There are NO small choices.